i wanted to close couple my SF F units from 2003 but also wanted them to be reversible if needed. I also did not want to use Kadee scale couplers.
i may have found a solution by using dummy couplers from Lionel made for the centipede. It reduces the space by quite a bit to where there is about a quarter inch between the units. They are also at the correct hight.
Take a look. Original on the left and the dummy coupler on the right.