PAUL ROMANO posted:I have been a member of NJ Hirailers Club in Paterson, NJ for over ten years. Without getting into the weeds, overall it has been a positive experience. Our members share a common interest in hi rail model railroading. Each one contributes their skills in maintaining a large 185' X 35' layout. It is a club and members do have different personalities, opinions, etc. which is to be expected.
With any organization there are always going to be some folks who disagree with the majority but isn't government by the majority the definition of a democracy? Why should a club be any different (unless it's one that is not run by the membership). I state this as a positive - if the folks who are saying bad things are still members how much is it about a real issue vs being of a different opinion? If it was a real issue I would think they would cease being a member.
I thoroughly enjoy being part of the NJ Hi-Railers even though I have not had the chance to meet everyone. Working all our open houses and attending various meets and shows with fellow members is a blast as well as getting to share the hobby and interact with the general public. My only con is I live 2 hours away and until my son goes off to college in a year, I'm limited to being an associate member - but that's ok. It's great the club has a level of membership which fits my current situation.
As long as you are able to meet the requirements of membership and are welcomed by fellow members I say go for it. If it's not a good fit you can always end your association with the club. You really have nothing to lose and the potential to gain something very valuable far outweighs any doubts you are having now.
-Greg
