See... Mark's got it right! About 45 anniversaries ago I found out the hard way that me picking out presents and giving them to her never really worked right. It was much better to go with her and let her pick something she wanted. It was the same with me, really special stuff was often bought together, like my superb Canon image stabilized binoculars or my Meade telescope system. The agreement, as this is also important, is: No Sneaking. I don't buy stuff and sneak it into the house, and she doesn't either. You will always get caught and it ruins the whole deal. My train expenditures are out in the open. I don't hide it.
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