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Reply to "Does Model Railroading Mean Fewer Divorces?"

Allin posted:

I remember an article in Model Railroader magazine, possibly the one mentioned, how the husband and wife both enjoyed the layout. He would have his friends over to run the layout, while she hosted, and the wives had fun upstairs. Her joy of hosting social events and his joy of model railroading, meshed well, even if they were not the same hobby. Some have specialized over aspects of hobby, and some don't share at all. The mutual understanding and trust in the relationship shows up in how the hobby is viewed, and interacts with the relationship, positive or negative. The understanding that not everyone has to have the same hobby also shows, when both support each others hobbies, that they do not share, and use that to build up the relationship.

Just some observations.

When one has very different hobbies or interests from his or her spouse, each may admire what the other does, and they may complement each other.

For instance, many model railroaders, not me, are very handy with tools and very good at fixing things. Some wives will find this to be a very attractive characteristic in their husbands.

When one spouse has the skills of a very good artist, perhaps manifested in the scenery or backdrop of a layout, turning it into a thing of beauty, that could be very pleasing to both spouses.

To support one's spouse's hobbies, interests, and hopes and dreams can be the foundation of a truly great relationship. 

My wife has done acting and been in theatrical productions, off and on, since elementary school. She now takes weekly acting classes that make her feel she is living life to its fullest. Nothing is more important for me than her continuing her acting classes. She reciprocates by supporting my interests (I have several), which includes model railroading that I do for creativity, entertainment and to reduce my stress.

Arnold

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