The diagram is correct.
Trigger+ is from the diode (side with the band). Trigger- is from isolated track.
Yeah, I see now the video can be confusing since the trigger- wire is orange which does not match diagram (blue). And it just happened the 14v ac in video came from right side and I just happened to wire in diode on right side. But the band side of diode is on the left in video and then goes to trigger+ with white wire. Sorry about that!
Possibly too-much-info but one thing I like about this particular timer relay module is that it has an electrically isolated trigger input. Hence it requires 2 trigger wires, a + and a -. They chose GND-T to label the trigger- which is potentially confusing. But that's a separate discussion we can have (or not) after you are up and running. ☺