Well, we are all, after all, at-play here, on OGR, as well as when we are at our layouts.
When I was a kid in Duquesne , PA, we liked the kids who were fun to be with, whom we enjoyed. Those were the ones we asked to come out and play with us, again and again. We gravitated to the ones who understood our way of playing.
Those friendships I have carried with me to this day. FrankM