Chris, since I think I have it licked, I'm not going to put any more development time into it. 
Sean, as long as the lower limit switch is adjusted just so, mine works the same way. However, for reasons that I don't fully understand, it's gotten mis-adjusted twice. As for square and level, Tom and I spent quite a bit of time making sure the table was 100% true, so I don't think that's the issue. It seats fine and true if the limit switch is adjusted perfectly, it's just that seems to be harder to maintain that adjustment than it should be.
I have the inside/outside switch figured out, just have to get the switches mounted. I looked your video, and I did basically the same thing. The only difference is, since the switch has two terminals wired together, I only used 5 wires from the two remote switches.
