We attended a York Meet and was very pleased, and I can cross it off my to do bucket list. That said the wife and I have reached a point where we like to go to local train shows to pick up a few small items for the layout, but mostly just do meet and greets with vendors we have met over the years. There is just so much you can do and older we get, the longer it takes. And quite honestly, interests change and trains may take a back seat to something new.
I mean seriously, we all at some point reach a saturation point of trains and other stuff (yeah I know there are die-hards who will never be satisfied until they have every last pristine model from JCowen's first primitive wooden car to Mike Wolf's MTH drawing board one of a kind prototypes. 
)
Really a bell curve, you excitedly enter wanting/buying everything 
, until reaching satisfaction peak 
, then begin selling off less needed/duplicates, or just plain exiting the hobby 
, until finally your next of kin dispose "the junk" for pennies on the dollar. 
