Sorry about your loss Eddie. We just lost our lab 3 weeks ago to cancer, he was in perfect health until last October when we found a large mass right before his 8th birthday. We were fortunate to get an extra 4 months with him.....he was truly one of the best dogs that I have ever had and not a day goes by that we don't miss him or think about him.
I am sure it will get better over time for you, but it certainly stinks right now doesn't it?
Sorry for your loss.
It is very difficult to lose such a faithful companion. They rely on us for everything and we on them for unconditional love. May your great memories give you solace throughout the years.
I know what it feels like. My most recent loss was of my Buddy, 'the Wonder-Cat'.
He was with me since 8 weeks old and I had 16 years of his company. I cried for
him as for the other fuzzy friends I've lost over the years. Some people can't.
That doesn't mean they're bad people. I just think it's a kind of gift to be able to
love something that much.
I wish you peace and healing.
Hoppy
Eddie, so very sorry to hear about Bingo. From your description of him, we can tell you must have had MANY wonderful times with Bingo. For now, try to take solace in knowing how much a gift you had in having Bingo all those years.
One of life's greatest mysteries is understanding why we must learn to say good-bye here on Earth to those we love so much. But in God's time -- which is really only "in just a little while" -- we'll be reunited with all our loved ones again in a place where there are no more good-byes to be had -- only pure love. When you see Bingo again, you'll know you're there. God bless.
David
Eddie, so sorry to hear this. We know how you're feeling right now, we've lost two in the past. Dogs to us are just like family member's.
Alex & Dina
Eddie:
My parents are enthusiastic dog lovers...members of several clubs and such. Within the canine community, there is a phrase used whenever a dog passes on; it is said he or she "crosses the rainbow bridge." When our own time comes, they are waiting on the other side of that bridge for us. May these words bring you some comfort.
Bob
Eddie
As someone who has lost a few dogs. I remember my Golden Retriever who was always by my side. Laying with under the layout as I wired it. Sitting beside as I ran trains. He was the best babysitter we had when the kids were small.
He was probably close to the same league as your Bingo. As the Vet said to me as we put him down. He stated remember all the good times and how much he is better off. " A dogs love is unconditional and will always be a part of us". We were a better family becase of him as you are because of Bingo.
Gene
Sorry for your loss, Eddie. We became dog owners for the first time a few years ago and I now have a greater appreciation for the sadness such a loss brings. My condolences.
- Mike
Very sorry for your loss Eddie. Losing a pet is almost like losing a child. They are so dependent on us and give us so much love.
But I'm sure that right now, Bingo is very thankful that you were her person and is very happy you took care of her and helped end her pain.
Do as others have said and get yourself another pet to fill the void. After losing three pets over a two year period, we acquired new pets which helped sooth the pain of losing the others. You never ever forget them but there is happiness in knowing you're giving love to a new pet who needs it and will return the love many times over.
Eddie
I feel you pain and share your great loss.
In August 2012, I lost my dachshund due to cancer. I thought I would be able to deal with it, but I was a basket case.
I was fortunate through a friend to get a puppy in November 2012 that had the same father, Tucker's half brother.
I would like to share a short video with you of Buckaroo, who likes to play ball.
Bucky's puppy photo
Eddie,
I'm so sorry to hear your best friend has gone to heaven. Like Allan said, Pepper will be watching over Bingo until you are called to be with her.
So sorry, Eddie.
Peter
So sorry for you right now. I have had several dogs from puppies to old age and it really hurts when they go. I always get another dog fairly soon and will again when one of my two much loved dogs goes.
Eddie - find the strength to welcome into your heart a new friend and companion - as soon as you can. You will never replace Bingo but a new pet in your life will make your loss endurable.
God Bless.
We have been there and done that, my friend, more times than I care to think about. It's a terrible thing to have to do. But it was the right decision, and I'm sure your friend understands that.
They wait for us.
They leave such craters in our hearts when they go...
Not everyone can go rescue another cat or dog, but if you can, please do. There are dogs who have lost their people and feel awful, too.
Very sorry to here that Eddie . I pray peace finds you ,and Bingo in this tough decision that you've had to make.
Sorry for your loss Eddie. This may Help Our Vet sent this to us after one of our losses.
Eddie
Very sorry to hear of Bingo's passing. Best wishes to you during this period and beyond.
Eddie, I am so sorry for your loss. I lost my Pepper Girl two years ago when she was 14 and it was one of the hardest things I have had to go through.
I found the best way for me to move on was to distract and refocus my feelings so we got a pair of pups, Marvin and Harley from the same liter.
It's not for everyone but I'm so glad I did it, they mean the world to me and I was able to better deal with the loss of Pepper. My prayers will be with you.
Paul
Eddie,
Sorry for your loss. Seems like all forumites love their animals, they make great companions and fill our lives with good times and memories.
I agree about getting another. We lost our cat Skeeter a few years back and within days we went to the SPCA and adopted Lily (sitting next to me as I type). The next year we went to our local Human Society and adopted a male cat, Max.
I'm having a real hard time with it. I can't even sleep at home. I'm staying at my daughters. Thanks loads again for your kind thoughts.
HI Jim, I cleaned out cages with my grandson for 4 years at our local animal shelter.
Eddie,
I know you and I have locked horns more than once over the years on this forum, but I wanted to say that I definitely identify with what you're going through. I've lost a few dogs due to age, illness, etc. but my absolute favorite dog, Shake, a beagle/lab mix, was the absolute hardest of all for me to lose. She was my childhood dog, she was a stray that adopted me and we have been steadfast companions ever since. Her health took a turn for the worse & had to be put to sleep my senior year of High School. Even though that was decades ago, that dog seemed to have forever spoiled me for all other dogs.
Moving ahead to now: We just recently had to put Squeak, our Siberian Husky to sleep due to health complications and it was hard, especially for my wife since it was only just literally a year ago that we had to put another one of our family favorites to sleep. But as others have said, finding another furry companion is the best therapy. Now we have two new additions (not replacements) to the household, a Dinmont Terrier and a Border Collie/Terrier mix, both we got from the local shelter, and eveyone's lives feel complete again.
Yours can feel it again too, just do some searching and you'll no doubt find a new companion that will steal your heart and you can create new memories.
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