I have lived in New England for 25+ years, but I'm still a Type-A NJ/NY guy. I'd drive through the streets of the Bronx if I thought it would save 15 minutes. (But it doesn't, so I don't.)
Everyone here seems to be saying not to take the GWB, but from 10am until about 2pm and from 8pm-5am, the GWB will likely save you 20 minutes over any other approach. Yes, there can be a traffic jam during those hours, but it's the exception not the rule. During the morning rush, the Tappan Zee (and I-287 that feeds it) can be almost as bad.
Since you live north of Hartford, I would do the following:
- IF YOU WILL BE DRIVING THROUGH NY METRO DURING RUSH HOUR, the I-84 bridge into Newburgh, NY might be your best bet. My rule is to avoid NY Metro during the morning rush, not just any one bridge.
- IF YOU'RE DRIVING THROUGH NY METRO OUTSIDE THE MORNING RUSH HOUR, almost as soon as you get in your car, turn on WINS 1010 AM and switch between it and WCBS 880 AM. One station has traffic reports "on the ones" (i.e., 8:01, 8:11, 8:21, etc.) and the other has traffic reports "on the eights". You're never more than seven minutes from a "bridges and tunnels" update.
- Take I-84 to I-684.
- By listening to the traffic reports, you can make the last-minute call concerning getting off 684 and onto 287 and going over the Tappan Zee or continuing south and going over the GWB. Remember, all other things being equal, the GWB will save you 20 minutes over any other crossing.
- Once you're south of NYC, how you get to York is up to you, but I personally prefer I-95 -> I-78 -> I-81 -> I-83. I find this to be the fastest way from the North.
Having said all that, here's how I've done it the past few years with great success:
- Take Amtrak to Philadelphia
- Rent a car at the Hertz office inside 30th Street Station.
- Drive 90 miles to York (I-76 -> Rt 222 -> Rt 30).
The advantage of the train is, well, it's a train. More to the point, you can sit with your laptop and get several hours of work done as you ride versus clenching the wheel white-knuckled as you bomb across the Cross Bronx. There's a 2pm-ish Saturday return train that you can easily catch after the Halls close.
HTH.
Steven J. Serenska