My first train ride was in August 1932 at 6 months old from N.C to Dennison, Ohio. My first toy train was a NYC Marx winder in 1938. Steam trains, and in particular the 2-8-0s and 4-6-0s of my hometown railroad, have always fascinated me. I got back into the hobby in 1980, switching from HO to O-gauge. Up until the mid-80s, starting the build and dismantling of layouts as a result of job relocations had been my model railroading.
I approached retirement in 1990 [playing with trains on the mountain retirement house Den carpet].The outlook was for playing golf daily but it finally dawned on me that by the fourth golf hole, while searching for my ball, I always developed the feeling that I could be doing something productive. As it turned out fooling with trains has been mentally productive, requiring a much lower frustration tolerance than golf[even with the "new" electronics].
Anyway, my wife had become a "scratch" and championship golfer and even playing a Sunday afternoon round with her was detrimental to my testosterone level. So,upon retirement in 1992 I built a 14x32, twin shelf, 5-track operation in her high ceiling kitchen-breakfast room via an agreement to evacuate the Den carpet oval and stop running trains during Oprah and TV Soaps. Additionally in '97 I built a 15x25 layout upstairs in our Greensboro Condo anticipating that we would age out there. We are doing so. At both home locations the large layouts have now been dismantled and today I am piddling with a little 9x16 attic layout over the garage.
In spite of today's frustrations that accompany age and health issues, the fun and anticipation of "doing trains" remains--oft times more mental than physical.