Given you said it is a large layout, this does not strike me as a ridiculously large amount of poweror overly large number of power supplies. More than sufficient, yes, but not ridiculously more.
TOTAL AMOUNT OF POWER: One can do the math pretty easily. The "hungriest" train I have is the Lionel Santa Fe Anniversary passenger set. It's A-B-B-A engine set has, I think, four Pullmor motors, and it came with seven lighted passenger cars with incandescent lights, to which I add two more normally. It will temporarily draw 11 amps when starting (flashing the ZW-L's warning light but dropping below the 10.0 amp limit as the train starts to move before the unit trips) and it routinely pulls 9 amps when up to speed - at around 15-16 volts for about 140 - 150 watts total when running. Even though Gunrunnerjohn's advice (that you'll never be running everything at max, at once) is very sound, you can total up how many trains would run at once and multiply by 150W per train to give you a nice upper limit on what youwould ever likely need.
Add to that accessories and building/layout lighting. A large lighted building (incandescent not LED) can consume 20 watts and a layout can have a lot of buildings/accessories.
So your friend's layout with 3600W net output could run ten trains at 150 W each and 100 buildings and accessories at 20W each. That is a lot of power but it is not beyond the limits of what a large layout may need.
TOTAL NUMBER OF BRICKS: people often use two or more power supplies when one would actually do, because they want to deploy them to different locations or track circuits or whatever - there are just lots of reasons. I have one ZW-L and one CW-80 that run up to four trains and my accessories (a total of 800 watts although I have never come close to using all at once even if I have used up to 150+W per train). On my Superstreets loops - each has a different supply: 'Streets cars typically run at about 6 watts each and the total there for all seven loops never exceeds perhaps 50 watts total but I have seven separate supplies nonetheless that add up to well over 350W. Just the way I do it . . .
TWO OR MORE HOUSEHOLD CIRCUITS: Your friend will need at least two and perhaps three normal household circuits to power twenty bricks. But this, too, is often done. I run my locos and accessories off of circuit, and my Superstreets power supplies and my workshop tools off another, not just because I need to but because of where I want to plug the various supplies into the wall sockets. Again, this can be common on a big layout, too.