I'm going to go into an area where I don't have all the facts and am only working off of theory and such. I don't know enough about these engines to know if anything that follows is actually true in this particular case.
There are two things I can think of that contribute to an engine coming to a sudden stop when cycling to neutral. The first is the mechanical drivetrain. it may be that the gear box is designed in such a way that if the motor is unpowered the wheels simply can not turn. If this is the case, one would need an e unit that gradually reduces motor power in order to get any sort of coasting effect. The second is that the e-unit in place may be effectively connecting both of the motor's connections together, which would cause the motor to act like a brake on the drive train. If this is the case, using an e-unit that floats the motor when it is unpowered may allow it to coast...some.
I'm unfamiliar with the Dallee unit, so I don't know if it would help with either of these problems. I do know that if one were so inclined they could fairly inexpensively construct their own e-unit that could counter either problem. One might even be able to do something inline with the PS3 electronics that would allow all of the engine's sounds and features to remain intact while allowing the engine to coast to a stop.
All that said, I'm curious why it wouldn't be worth the time to code the boards properly in the first place. It seems to me there are plenty of people that run conventional, and a strong contingent of folks that are only interested in conventional operation and have no desire to ever run any form of command. If I bought an engine advertised to be fully functional in conventional, I'd like it to perform well in that environment. I've always used the direction buttons to stop, and expect many others do as well, sort of a "feature" of conventional running in my opinion.
JGL