Thanks for the responses guys! It is MUCH appreciated!
I haven't had a chance to get back in there and work on it as I've been busy (an 8 month old will do that you know). But as soon as I can I'll do a better job of soldering the wire to the connection. Gunrunner, I was thinking of going direct to that post but the example showed that connection as in the example so I was "testing" with it first. And yes the wiring job is pitiful as I was just trying to make sure that was the correct connection before cutting and soldering into place all the wires. I guess the other wire on that connector can be cut off as it is not used? Pete, thanks for that troubleshooting info! I'll be using it!
But anyway, once I'm done I'll update you guys. And as always, THANK YOU!